2 Timothy 1:7
“For God has not given us a spirit of fear and timidity but of power, love and self discipline.”
When I think of self control. I imagine fight against impulses, such as buying something you don’t need or eating more than your stomach can withstand. I also think of controlling behavior’s and emotions such as the urge to be rude and cruel to another person when they’ve done you wrong. The war in doing what is right and beneficial and doing the opposite.
During the new year I feel like we all think of self-control a little more than other times. We want to push ourselves to be better versions of ourselves this year than the years prior. We want to go on a diet, read more, do more exercises, be better at finishing that thing that you’ve put off for the past few months. We look to ourselves more in these times, how we manage our time and our energy and how we can use what we do and what we have to improve upon those things.
I never really considered self-control a biblical matter but in Galatians chapter 5 verses 22-23 it mentions self-control as a fruit of the Spirit. Each of the fruits of the Spirit are essential in our Christian walk (the others listed are love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, and gentleness) it’s important in our journey to gain self-control and discipline ourselves in order to grow closer with God and fight off any evil force that may present itself to us.
1 Corinthians 9:24-27
“Don’t you realize that in a race everyone runs but only one gets the prize? So run to win. I discipline my body like an athlete, training to do what it should. Otherwise, I fear that after preaching to others I myself my get disqualified.”
Self control helps us avoid things that are bad for our mental, physical and spiritual wellbeing and health. We all have our own ‘poison’ in our lives that make make our circumstances different. We do not have control over certain circumstances in our lives but we do have control over how we respond to those circumstances. By excising self-control we allow ourselves the opportunity to grow in the Spirit and defend ourselves from our desires and sins.
Proverbs 25:28
“A person who lacks self-control is like a city with broken down walls.”
There are times in life where you have to say no in order to grow. You have to deny yourself your desires and steer yourself in the right direction. You have to build up boundaries or walls in your life to block out the fruitless desires of your human heart. Ever since the Fall of Man we have all had different sins that try to fight their ways into our lives. We have to build a better life for ourselves and call on God and the Holy Spirit to guide us on a better path to justice and righteousness. We cannot fulfill the lives we desire without the help of the Spirit.
I feel like the Holy Spirit gets put on the backburner when it comes to the Holy Trinity but He is just as much of an essential component in our spiritual lives as God and Jesus are. He is there to guide us on the path we are destined to be apart of. The live we crave beyond death and even before.
Not only are there evil desires to renounce altogether, but good desires to keep in check and indulge only in appropriate ways.
Christian self-control is multifaceted. It involves both “control over one’s behavior and the impulses and emotions beneath it” (Philip Towner, Letters to Timothy and Titus, 252). It includes our minds and our emotions — not just our outward actions, but our internal state.
“True self-control is not about bringing ourselves under our own control but bringing ourselves under the power of Christ.” We cannot gain this without Him.
So while you think about your New Year’s resolution today and with the weeks to come, try to think about the things that are holding you back from the life God desires for you.
with love,
c.p